I noticed a negative trend in myself the past year. I seem to have lost some of my self-confidence that I once cherished so deeply. Over the past couple of months, I have noticed how heavily I 've been comparing myself with others and letting the differences get to me. I was judging myself heavily against others. From viewing other designers killer work, outfits that were better than mine, to seeing pics of my boyfriends ex, were just little things that would really get in my head. Those little things would ruin a whole day. I asked myself, “Where is the strong confident girl I once was?" The biggest thing I am going to work on this year is being true to myself! I want to speak my mind more, care less about what others think, and do what makes me happy! I think I need to spend less time on the internet and more time outside, doing the things I love!
This might seem redundant from last year but I am going to keep this as a goal until I am debt free. While I did make great headway on my loans this past year, I am still not where I want to be. I need to remind myself to purchase with more intention. My sister sent me a nice life hack for finding out what clothes you should get rid of. Check it out here. I think I’m going to try this in my closet.
Make More Things
I use to make things all the time! Why did I stop? I think this will really help my wellbeing to create more things! I don’t mean just DIY stuff. I want to get back to making my sketchbook collages I was so fond of in college. Plus, it’s time to use those empty canvas I have sitting in storage and make some paintings! I think this will really aid my happiness!
Fall Back In Love With Running
Finally, I want to fall back in love with running! I realized that I didn’t run a single marathon in 2015. I know that sounds weird but I like to run one marathon a year and 3-4 half-marathons. Everyone is different with running. It’s hard to find the right running schedule that is just right for you. I have learned that I am a much more consistent runner if I have signed up for a race. I need a real goal to work towards. So that said, my first half of the year is in two weeks! I am actually excited for the race, so that must best a good sign!
Well, those are my goals/things to work on for 2016! Let’s hope I stick to it. I think my goals are pretty reasonable so I should have no excuses. What are your goals for the new year? Do you even set goals or resolutions? I would love to hear what y’all do!
Happy New Year!